Telling the kids that you are moving.
Breaking the news to your family when moving can be tough. Especially for older kids. Whether you are relocating because of a new job opportunity or because of circumstances. It is important to let your children know beforehand but telling them may not be easy.
Moving is a drastic change in children’s lives; they will be leaving what may be the only home they have ever known to a place they are not familiar with. The older the kids are, the harder it will be for them to say goodbye to their friends and school.
Getting the timing right is important. You want to let them know that there is a possibility of a move, but you also don’t want to tell them too soon if you are not sure of the move yet. There is no point in them worrying about something that might not happen. If you have told a few people around and close to you, do not take any chances, tell your children as well so they do not hear it from someone else. Children trust their parents to keep them aware of important things that affect their lives. This trust is damaged if they hear about a move from someone else.
Once decide about when you are going to tell them, you need to think about how you are going to tell them. This life-changing news, so pick a private setting like a family meeting to do so. Doing it after school on the weekend when everyone is home is ideal. This way your children can ask you questions and properly express their feelings.
Talk to them about the new place and make them feel at ease about the move. Telling the kids that you are moving will not be easy, but the more transparent you are the more likely your children will understand. It will take time for everyone to get used to the idea. Involving your children in the process will make them more comfortable.
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